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	<description>&lt;b&gt;Author:&lt;/b&gt; shining light&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Subject::&lt;/b&gt; Subject: Ansering Barelwi's Free PDFS &lt;br /&gt;
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	<title>How to use this site :: Cant post in multimedia section?</title>
	<link>http://www.muftisays.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=21605#21605</link>
	<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 10:32:39 GMT</pubDate>
	<description>&lt;b&gt;Author:&lt;/b&gt; shining light&lt;br /&gt;
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Cant post in multimedia section?

Sorry, but only moderators can post topics in this forum.

and still cant post in Nasheed section..same error.&lt;br /&gt;

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	<title>Articles :: Stories :: More :: How To Benefit From the Holy Quran</title>
	<link>http://www.muftisays.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=21593#21593</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 10:46:29 GMT</pubDate>
	<description>&lt;b&gt;Author:&lt;/b&gt; sister-in-islam&lt;br /&gt;
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Allah the Most High says: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;Indeed in this there is a remembrance for those who have a living heart, listen attentively and are awake to taking heed.&quot; (Quran: Qaaf:37) &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Therefore, if you desire to benefit from Quran, gather your heart when reciting it, focus your attention to it and focus as if you are the one being directly addressed by it. For indeed it is an address from Allah via the path of the Messenger (p.b.u.h.). &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;This is because gaining complete benefit from Quran is dependent upon the object providing the benefit, the place by which it is to be received, the conditions related to attaining the benefit and the non existence of anything that may hinder the benefit from occurring. Hence the verse contains an explanation of all of these points, with the shortest and clearest of words, and those that best prove the point. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Thus the saying of Allah: (Indeed in this there is a remembrance) has an inference to what has preceded the verse from the beginning of Soorah Qaaf up to this verse and this is what is causing the benefit. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Whilst the saying of Allah (who have a living heart) then this refers to the place that receives the benefit and this is the heart that has life and comprehends what Allah has sent, as Allah the Most High says: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;Indeed this is only a clear reminder and a plain Quran so as to warn those who have a living heart.&quot; (Yaaseen: 69-70)&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;And His saying (listen attentively) i.e. who turns his attention to it and listens mindfully to what is being said. This is the condition that is placed so that one can be benefited by it. And His saying (are awake to taking heed) i.e. that the heart is attentive to it. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Ibn Qutaibah said: &quot;Listen to the book of Allah whilst your heart and mind are attentive, not neglectful nor distant.&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;This is an inference to the matter that prevents one from attaining benefit. That is when the heart is distant and unmindful such that it does not understand what is being said, nor comprehend it. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Therefore, if the cause of the benefit - Quran, is found and the place of receiving it - and that is the heart has life - and the condition is fulfilled - and that is listening attentively - and the barriers that would prevent benefit from being attained are avoided - and that is the heart being pre-occupied with something else and it being unmindful of what is said - then one attains the benefit, of being benefited by Quran. (al-Fawaa'id by Ibn-ul-Qayyim)&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

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	<title>How to use this site :: quiz uploaded twice accidenly</title>
	<link>http://www.muftisays.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=21585#21585</link>
	<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 17:36:50 GMT</pubDate>
	<description>&lt;b&gt;Author:&lt;/b&gt; bint iqbal&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;P&gt;Salaams&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I just uploaded a quiz twice accidently, once anonymously. I only realised after clicking on the anonymous quiz that it was my quiz, is it possible to delete it?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Jazakallah&lt;/P&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

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	<title>Virtues :: Du'a and Its Relationship with Destiny*</title>
	<link>http://www.muftisays.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=21581#21581</link>
	<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 09:26:59 GMT</pubDate>
	<description>&lt;b&gt;Author:&lt;/b&gt; sister-in-islam&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;H1&gt;Du'a and Its Relationship with Destiny*&lt;/H1&gt;
&lt;H6&gt;by Yasir Qadhi&lt;/H6&gt;The topic of du'a and its relationship with destiny (qadr) is a very important one, and one around which much confusion exists. Many people ask, &quot;If everything has already been destined to occur, then of what use is du'a? If Allah has written what I want, I will get it without making du'a. And if it is not written for me, then I will never get it no matter how much du'a I make.&quot;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;The response to this question lies in understanding that the outcome of anything is dependent on the performance of the efforts that are necessary to procure it. In other words, it has already been decreed, for example, that a seed will give fruit if planted, but this will not occur unless the farmer takes the appropriate efforts in irrigating the crop, maintaining it, protecting the seedling as it grows, and ensuring as much as he can that the factors are amenable for the plant to give fruit. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;So even though a person believes in divine decree, he must at the same time strive all he can to ensure that the desired goal occurs. And du'a is the means that one uses to achieve the desired goal that one has, and this in no way contradicts the destiny that has been written for that person. This stance is clarified by the Prophet sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam's hadith reported by Thawban, that he, sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam said:&lt;BR&gt;&quot;Nothing increases one's lifespan except good deeds, and nothing repels divine decree except du'a. A person may be deprived of sustenance due to a sin that he does&quot; (Ibn Majah)! In other words, the performance of good deeds is a cause of increasing one's lifespan. So if a person puts in the necessary effort, the results will be achieved, and this is also destined. So both the means to achieve a goal, and the fulfillment of the goal itself, are already decreed.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;If someone were to ask, &quot;How can du'a repel divine decree?&quot; we would respond, &quot;The fact that you may be ill has already been decreed by Allah for you, as has the fact that you will ask Allah to cure you of this illness (i.e. both the illness and your asking to cure the illness has been decreed). In a similar manner, a person may be deprived of his sustenance that was decreed for him, since Allah's eternal knowledge encompasses the fact that this person would perform a sinful deed that would cause the deprivation of his sustenance. All of this, then, is from the decree of Allah, all glory and praise be to Him.&quot; There are a number of ahadith that clarify this point. For example, Mu'adh ibn Jabal reported that the Prophet sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam said:&lt;BR&gt;&quot;Caution will be of no benefit against divine decree, but du' a benefits all things, whether they come down or not. I therefore advise you to make du'a, O servants of Allah&quot; (Ahmad, Abu Ya'la and al-Tabarani)! &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;So no matter how cautious a person is, he cannot escape what is written for him, simply because Allah controls everything, and nothing escapes His knowledge or power. However, by turning to Allah through du'a , it is possible to avert something that might have been decreed. Salman al-Farsi narrated that the Prophet sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam said:&lt;BR&gt;&quot;Nothing repels divine decree except du'a, and nothing increases one's lifespan except good deeds&quot; (Al-Tirmidhi and Al-Hakim).&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;This hadith informs us in no uncertain terms that the only way we can repel some divine decree is through du'a. So it is possible that some unpleasant matter has been preordained for us, but only if we do not make du'a to avert it from us. So if du'a is made, then this matter will not occur or be fulfilled, whereas if du'a is left, the misfortune will occur. Another narration in al-Tirmidhi also supports this. The Prophet sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam said:&lt;BR&gt;&quot;There is no Muslim on the face of the earth that asks Allah for anything except that Allah gives it to him, or averts from him a similar evil, as long as he does not ask for something evil or for breaking the ties of kinship&quot; (Al-Tirmidhi).&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;From this narration, the benefits of du'a are made clear, and its value is understood. For not only is a person rewarded for making a du'a, but it is also a cause of repelling an evil that was destined for him, and in obtaining the good that he was expecting.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Ibn Hajr, commenting on the benefits of du'a, said:&lt;BR&gt;&quot;And the benefit of performing du'a is the attainment of reward by obeying the command (of Allah to make du'a), and also by the attainment of what is asked for, for there is a possibility that the request is dependent on the du'a, since Allah is the Creator of both the effort and result of the effort&quot; (Fath Al-Bari)!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Therefore, the proper response to the question posed earlier is, in the words of Ibn al-Qayyim, as follows:&lt;BR&gt;&quot;The logical consequences of such a reasoning leads to a rejection of all efforts. It can, therefore, be said to a person who holds this view, 'If the satisfaction of your hunger and thirst has already been destined for you, then it will be fulfilled, whether you eat or not. On the other hand, if it has not been destined for you, it will never occur, whether you eat or not. And, if a son has been destined for you, then you will be granted one, whether you have intercourse with your wife or not. On the other hand, if a son has not been destined for you, then you will never be granted one. In this case, there is no point in you getting married...!' Now, will any sane person agree with all of these conclusions&quot; (Al-Jawab Al-Kafi)?&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;To summarise, then, divine decree (qadr) cannot be used as an excuse not to make du'a. For, just as one strives to ensure that one attains worldly needs, of food, drink and family, so too must one strive in one's religious deeds to attain the desired goal. Du'a is intrinsically related to qadr; in fact, it is a part of one's qadr. Allah has already decreed that a certain matter will be granted to a servant, or an evil averted from him, if he makes du'a. And if he were to leave du'a, then the desired goal would not be reached. Hence it is the Sunnah of the Prophet sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam to make the following du'a during the witr prayer:&lt;BR&gt;&quot;...Bless me in what You have given me. And avert and turn away from me the evil that has been decreed for me, for verily You decree (all things), and none can decree against You...&quot; (Al-Tirmidhi and Al-Nasa'i)&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;So the Muslim turns to Allah and prays to Him so that any and all evil can be averted from him. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Additionally, it should be remembered that the concept of divine decree is one that a human can never fully understand, due to his limited intellect and finite capabilities. The true Muslim does not delve too deeply into the philosophical ramifications of divine decree. Rather, he accepts all that has occurred to him in the past as having been destined for him, and he strives to obtain what he desires in the future (as long as it is permissible for him). Since he does not know what has been written for him in the future, he expects the best from Allah, and does everything in his power to ensure that what he wants is granted him. Just like going to work every day will ensure, if Allah wills, that he gets his pay-cheque at the end of the month, so too does making du'a ensure, if Allah wills, that he achieves his desired goal.&lt;BR&gt;--------------------&lt;BR&gt;*Excerpted and edited further from: Qadhi, Abu Ammaar Yasir (2003). Du'a: The Weapon of the Believer: A Treatise on the Status and Etiquette of Du'a in Islam. Birmingham: Al-Hidaayah. &lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;
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&lt;P&gt;Islam is a beautiful religion, full of wisdom and harmony. If this wonderful religion is followed properly then a typical Muslim would only be a great example to follow. The Prophet &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; said: &quot;&lt;FONT color=green face=Tahoma&gt;The most perfect believer in faith is the one who is best in moral character...&quot;&lt;/FONT&gt; [At-Tirmithi]&lt;?XML:NAMESPACE PREFIX = O /&gt;&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT color=blue face=Tahoma&gt;Spreading kindness at home:&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;'Aa'ishah &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  her&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon-5.gif&quot;&gt; said: &lt;FONT color=black&gt;&lt;FONT face=Tahoma&gt;&quot;The Messenger of Allaah &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; said: &lt;FONT color=green&gt;'&quot;When Allaah, The Almighty,Wills some good towards the people of a household, He introduces kindness among them.'&quot;&lt;/FONT&gt; &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;[Ahmad]&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;According to another report: &quot;When Allaah loves the people of a household, He introduces kindness among them.&quot; [Ibn Abu Ad-Dunyaa] In other words, they start to be kind to one another. &lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;This is one of the means of attaining happiness at home, for kindness is very beneficial between the spouses, and with the children, and it brings results that cannot be achieved through harshness, as the Prophet &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; said: &lt;FONT color=green face=Tahoma&gt;&quot;Allaah loves kindness and rewards for it in such a way that He does not reward for harshness or for anything else.&quot;&lt;/FONT&gt; [Muslim]&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT color=blue face=Tahoma&gt;Helping the wife with the housework:&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Many men think that housework is beneath them, and some of them think that it will undermine their status and position if they help their wives with this work. The Messenger of Allaah &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; however, used to &quot;sew his own clothes, mend his own shoes and do whatever other work men do in their homes.&quot; [Ahmad] &lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;This is how 'Aa'ishah &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  her&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon-5.gif&quot;&gt; responded when she was asked about what the Messenger of Allaah &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; used to do in his house; she described what she herself had seen. According to another report, she said: &quot;He was like any other human being; he would clean his clothes, milk his ewe and serve himself.&quot; [Ahmad]&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;She &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  her&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon-5.gif&quot;&gt; was also asked about what the Messenger of Allaah &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; used to do in his house, and she said, &quot;He used to serve his family, then when the time for prayer came, he would go out to pray.&quot; [Al-Bukhaari]&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;If we Muslim men were to do likewise nowadays, we would achieve three things:&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style=&quot;FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; FONT-SIZE: 15px&quot;&gt;1. We would be following the example of the Prophet &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt;. &lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style=&quot;FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; FONT-SIZE: 15px&quot;&gt;2. We would be helping our wives. &lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style=&quot;FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; FONT-SIZE: 15px&quot;&gt;3. We would feel more humble and down to earth. &lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;These narrations should act as a reminder to those men, who demand food instantly from their wives, when the pot is on the stove and the baby is screaming to be fed; they do not pick up the child or wait a little while for the food. &lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT color=blue face=Tahoma&gt;Being affectionate towards and joking with the members of the family:&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Showing affection towards one's wife and children is one of the things that lead to creating an atmosphere of happiness and friendliness in the home. Thus the Messenger of Allaah &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; advised Jaabir &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--3.gif&quot;&gt; to marry a virgin, saying,&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT face=Tahoma&gt;&lt;FONT color=green&gt;&quot;Why did you not marry a virgin, so you could play with her and she could play with you, and you could make her laugh and she could make you laugh?&quot;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt; [Al-Bukhaari and Muslim]&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;The Prophet &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; also said: &quot;&lt;FONT color=green face=Tahoma&gt;Everything in which Allaah's name is not mentioned is idleness and play, except for four things: a man playing with his wife...&quot;&lt;/FONT&gt; [An-Nasaa'ee]&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;The Prophet &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; used to treat his wife 'Aa'ishah &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  her&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon-5.gif&quot;&gt; affectionately when performing Ghusl (ritual bath) with her, as she &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--3.gif&quot;&gt; said: &quot;The Messenger of Allaah and I used to perform Ghusl together from one vessel, and he would playfully pretend to take all the water so that I would say, 'Leave some for me, leave some for me.'&quot; [Muslim]&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=Style2&gt;The ways in which the Prophet &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; showed affection towards young children are too famous to need mentioning. He often used to show his affection towards his grandchildren Hasan and Husayn. This is probably one of the reasons why the children used to rejoice when he came back from traveling; they would rush to welcome him, as reported in the following authentic narration: &lt;FONT color=black face=Tahoma&gt;&quot;Whenever he came back from a journey, the children of his household would be taken out to meet him.&quot; He &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; used to hug them close to him, as 'Abdullaah Ibn Ja'far &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--3.gif&quot;&gt; said: &quot;Whenever the Prophet &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; came back from a journey, we would be taken out to meet him (to the boundaries of Al-Madeenah). One day we met him, Hasan, Husayn and I. He carried one of us in front of him (on his animal), and another on his back, until we entered Al-Madeenah.&quot;&lt;/FONT&gt; [Muslim]&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Compare this with the situation in some miserable homes where there is no joking or playing, affection or mercy among its members. Whoever thinks that kissing his children goes against the dignity of fatherhood should read the following narration reported from Abu Hurayrah &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--3.gif&quot;&gt; who said:&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
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	<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 20:39:45 GMT</pubDate>
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&lt;SPAN class=postbody&gt;Asalamalakum brothers and sister. &lt;BR&gt;May peace and blessing be upon you. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I need help regarding dawah,at the moment i am giving dawah to a jehovah's wittiness,well she is giving me dawah to her beliefs,but i turned the tables and started giving her.the thing is she said if she gets proof from the bible that Muhammad &lt;img src=&quot;http://www.muftisays.com/forum/images/smiles/saw.gif&quot; alt=&quot;Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt; is mentioned in the bible then she will believe he is the prophet,she wants to see proof,i told her i will present her the proof,as you all might be aware i dont know much about the bible,but this is what i was thinking of presenting to her. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;PROPHET MUHAMMAD (pbuh) IN THE BIBLE &lt;BR&gt;by Dr. Zakir Naik &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) in the Old Testament: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;The Qur’an mentions in Surah Al-Araf chapter 7 verse 157: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;Those who follow the Messenger, the unlettered Prophet, whom they find mentioned in their own (scriptures) in the law and the Gospel&quot;. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;1. &lt;BR&gt;MUHAMMAD (PBUH) PROPHESISED IN THE BOOK OF DEUTERONOMY: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Almighty God speaks to Moses in Book of Deuteronomy chapter 18 verse 18: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;I will raise them up a Prophet from among their brethren, like unto thee, and I will put my words in his mouth; and he shall speak unto them all that I shall command him.&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;The Christians say that this prophecy refers to Jesus (pbuh) because Jesus (pbuh) was like Moses (pbuh). Moses (pbuh) was a Jew, as well as Jesus (pbuh) was a Jew. Moses (pbuh) was a Prophet and Jesus (pbuh) was also a Prophet. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;If these two are the only criteria for this prophecy to be fulfilled, then all the Prophets of the Bible who came after &lt;BR&gt;Moses (pbuh) such as Solomon, Isaiah, Ezekiel, Daniel, Hosea, Joel, Malachi, John the Baptist, etc. (pbut) will &lt;BR&gt;fulfill this prophecy since all were Jews as well as prophets. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;However, it is Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) who is like Moses (pbuh): &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;i) &lt;BR&gt;Both had a father and a mother, while Jesus (pbuh) was born miraculously without any male intervention. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;[Mathew 1:18 and Luke 1:35 and also Al-Qur'an 3:42-47] &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;ii) &lt;BR&gt;Both were married and had children. Jesus (pbuh) according to the Bible did not marry nor had children. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;iii) &lt;BR&gt;Both died natural deaths. Jesus (pbuh) has been raised up alive. (4:157-158) &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Muhammad (pbuh) is from among the brethren of Moses (pbuh). Arabs are brethren of Jews. Abraham (pbuh) had two sons: Ishmail and Isaac (pbut). The Arabs are the descendants of Ishmail (pbuh) and the Jews are the descendants of Isaac (pbuh). &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Words in the mouth: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) was unlettered and whatever revelations he received from Almighty God he repeated them verbatim. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;I will raise them up a Prophet from among their brethren, like unto thee, and will put my words in his mouth; and he shall speak unto them all that I shall command him.&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;[Deuteronomy 18:18] &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;iv) &lt;BR&gt;Both besides being Prophets were also kings i.e. they could inflict capital punishment. Jesus (pbuh) said, &quot;My kingdom is not of this world.&quot; (John 18:36). &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;v) &lt;BR&gt;Both were accepted as Prophets by their people in their lifetime but Jesus (pbuh) was rejected by his &lt;BR&gt;people. John chapter 1 verse 11 states, &quot;He came unto his own, but his own received him not.&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;iv) &lt;BR&gt;Both brought new laws and new regulations for their people. Jesus (pbuh) according to the Bible did not bring any new laws. (Mathew 5:17-18). &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;2. &lt;BR&gt;It is Mentioned in the book of Deuteronomy chapter 18:19 &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;And it shall come to pass, that whosoever will not harken unto my words which he shall speak in my name, I will require it of him.&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;3. &lt;BR&gt;Muhammad (pbuh) is prophesised in the book of Isaiah: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;It is mentioned in the book of Isaiah chapter 29 verse 12: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;And the book is delivered to him that is not learned, saying, Read this, I pray thee: and he saith, I am not learned.&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;When Archangel Gabrail commanded Muhammad (pbuh) by saying Iqra - &quot;Read&quot;, he replied, &quot;I am not learned&quot;. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;4. &lt;BR&gt;prophet Muhammad (pbuh) mentioned by name in the old testament: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) is mentioned by name in the Song of Solomon chapter 5 verse 16: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;Hikko Mamittakim we kullo Muhammadim Zehdoodeh wa Zehraee Bayna Jerusalem.&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;His mouth is most sweet: yea, he is altogether lovely. This is my beloved, and this is my friend, O daughters &lt;BR&gt;of Jerusalem.&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;In the Hebrew language im is added for respect. Similarely im is added after the name of Prophet Muhammad &lt;BR&gt;(pbuh) to make it Muhammadim. In English translation they have even translated the name of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) as &quot;altogether lovely&quot;, but in the Old Testament in Hebrew, the name of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) is yet present. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) in the New Testament: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Al-Qur'an Chapter 61 Verse 6: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;And remember, Jesus, the son of Mary, said, 'O Children of Israel! I am the messenger of Allah (sent) to you, confirming the Law (which came) before me and giving glad tidings of a messenger to come after me, whose name shall be Ahmed.' But when he came to them with clear signs, they said, 'This is evident sorcery!' &quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;All the prophecies mentioned in the Old Testament regarding Muhammad (pbuh) besides applying to the Jews also hold good for the Christians. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;1. &lt;BR&gt;John chapter 14 verse 16: &lt;BR&gt;&quot;And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you forever.&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;2. &lt;BR&gt;Gospel of John chapter 15 verse 26: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;But when the Comforter is come, whom I will send unto you from the Father, even the Spirit of truth, which &lt;BR&gt;proceedeth from the Father, he shall testify of me.&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;3. &lt;BR&gt;Gospel of John chapter 16 verse 7: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;Nevertheless I tell you the truth; it is expedient for you that I go away: for if I go not away, the Comforter will not &lt;BR&gt;come unto you; but if I depart, I will send him unto you&quot;. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;Ahmed&quot; or &quot;Muhammad&quot; meaning &quot;the one who praises&quot; or &quot;the praised one&quot; is almost the translation of the &lt;BR&gt;Greek word Periclytos. In the Gospel of John 14:16, 15:26, and 16:7. The word 'Comforter' is used in the English translation for the Greek word Paracletos which means advocate or a kind friend rather than a comforter. &lt;BR&gt;Paracletos is the warped reading for Periclytos. Jesus (pbuh) actually prophesised Ahmed by name. Even the &lt;BR&gt;Greek word Paraclete refers to the Prophet (pbuh) who is a mercy for all creatures. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Some Christians say that the Comforter mentioned in these prophecies refers to the Holy Sprit. They fail to realise &lt;BR&gt;that the prophecy clearly says that only if Jesus (pbuh) departs will the Comforter come. The Bible states that the &lt;BR&gt;Holy Spirit was already present on earth before and during the time of Jesus (pbuh), in the womb of Elizabeth, and again when Jesus (pbuh) was being baptised, etc. Hence this prophecy refers to none other than Prophet &lt;BR&gt;Muhammad (pbuh). &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;4. &lt;BR&gt;Gospel of John chapter 16 verse 12-14: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;I have yet many things to say unto you, but ye cannot bear them now. Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth is &lt;BR&gt;come, he will guide you unto all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come. He shall glorify me&quot;. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;The Sprit of Truth, spoken about in this prophecy referes to none other than Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) &lt;BR&gt;NOTE: All quotations of the Bible are taken from the King James Version. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;COLOR: darkred&quot;&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;LINE-HEIGHT: normal; FONT-SIZE: 18px&quot;&gt;Has anyone got anything more convincing then the above. &lt;BR&gt;your help will be greatly appreciated&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;sister. &lt;BR&gt;safah.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

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	<title>Virtues :: Start with yourself before others</title>
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	<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 10:13:07 GMT</pubDate>
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&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;FONT-SIZE: small&quot;&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma&quot;&gt;&lt;B&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;LINE-HEIGHT: 150%&quot;&gt;Who to start with? &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;FONT-SIZE: small&quot;&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma&quot;&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;In Da'wah (call to Islam), start with yourself before the members of your family and other people and look at what is lacking in you in order that you may start treating it. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;So if there is a common deficiency between you and one of your companions or family members, then join him with you in resolving this problem because the Messenger of Allaah sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam  said: &lt;I&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;COLOR: #009900&quot;&gt;&quot;Whoever from amongst you sees an evil he should change it with his hand and if he is not able to, then with his tongue and if he is not able to, then he should hate it in his heart, and that is the weakest level of faith.&quot;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/I&gt; [Muslim and Ahmed] &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;How is your relationship with Allaah? &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;FONT-SIZE: small&quot;&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma&quot;&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;LINE-HEIGHT: 150%&quot;&gt;How is your humbleness in prayer?&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;FONT-SIZE: small&quot;&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma&quot;&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;LINE-HEIGHT: 150%&quot;&gt;Read about that which will better your condition and that of your prayer, increase your humbleness in it and soften your heart. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Are you one whose supplications are answered or do you notice most of your supplications not being answered?&lt;BR&gt;Look into your Aqeedah (Faith) and the level of your certainty and reliance upon Allaah, and observe closely your food and drink - are they from that which is Halaal (lawful) or Haraam (unlawful), or is there some doubt about their source?&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;If the situation was one that requires enjoining good and forbidding evil, what would you do? Prophet Muhammad, sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam said: &lt;I&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;COLOR: #009900&quot;&gt;&quot;By Him in Who's Hand is my soul, you will enjoin good and prohibit evil or (else) Allaah will soon send upon you a punishment from Him, then you will call upon Him and He will not answer you.&quot;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/I&gt; [Ahmed and At-Tirmithi] &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Maybe you would benefit from reading Hadeeths (Prophetic narrations) pertaining to the punishment of the grave and that of its bliss, about the terror of the Resurrection, and the torment of the Hell Fire. You could well continue reading for days, weeks or months, accompanying that with good actions and self-struggle. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;It is imperative that a person takes his soul to account and treats his deficiencies. Match yourself against the Quran and the Sunnah (Prophet's, sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam, tradition) to know who you are, and look what you have set aside for Allaah to know what Allaah, the Almighty and Majestic, has prepared for you because of the saying of the Messenger of Allaah, sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam: &lt;I&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;COLOR: #009900&quot;&gt;&quot;Whoever wants to know what Allaah has prepared for him then he should look to what he has prepared for Allaah.&quot;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/I&gt; [As-Silsilah As-Saheehah] &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Are you prepared for the meeting with Allaah?&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;FONT-SIZE: small&quot;&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma&quot;&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;LINE-HEIGHT: 150%&quot;&gt;Have you fulfilled the rights of the creation, one to another? Or are you in a constant state of postponing and deferring? &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;FONT-SIZE: small&quot;&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma&quot;&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;LINE-HEIGHT: 150%&quot;&gt;Have you converted your knowledge of repentance into crying and penitence?&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Have you turned whatever you have read about loving Allaah into real love for your Muslim brothers?&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Do you often visit them, and overlook their faults? Do you aid the needy from amongst them, feel delight for their happiness and grieve for their sorrow?&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Do you taste the sweetness and delight of Faith?&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Are Allaah and his Messenger, sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam, more beloved to you than anybody else?&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Do you give precedence to the love of Allaah over wealth, business, whims and desires?&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Test yourself when you hear the call to prayer, if you notice a desire to delay answering it in order to pursue your interests in trade (for example) then know that Satan has succeeded in gradually leading you astray and that your love for Allaah is deficient. In this way it is upon you to consolidate yourself, giving precedence to the orders of Allaah over any other worldly matter.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;How is your abhorrence of entering into disbelief? Do you abhor it as you would abhor being thrown into the Hell Fire? &lt;BR&gt;Do you live this abhorrence and this feeling in you, so that your sincerity to Allaah is cultivated and that you may hasten to purify your soul?&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Contemplate the Hadeeth of Umm Salamah &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  her&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon-5.gif&quot;&gt; who said: '&quot;Most of the invocations of the Messenger of Allaah, sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam, used to be: &lt;I&gt;&quot;O Changer of the Hearts make my heart firm upon your religion.&quot;&lt;/I&gt; [Ahmed and At-Tirmithi]&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Reflect upon how Ibraaheem (Abraham) &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; may  Allaah  exalt  his  mention&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--2.gif&quot;&gt; feared associating partners with Allaah, so he used to supplicate (what means): &lt;B&gt;&lt;I&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;COLOR: #0033cc&quot;&gt;&quot;And keep me and my sons away from worshipping idols.&quot;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/I&gt;&lt;/B&gt; [Quran 14:35]&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;This is what Abu Ad-Dardaa' &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--3.gif&quot;&gt; used to fear hence his saying: 'Verily what I fear from my Lord on the Day of Resurrection is that He calls me in front of all creation and says to me &quot;O 'Uwaymir (i.e., Abu Ad-Dardaa' himself),&quot; so I say, &quot;Here I am My Lord at Your service,&quot; so He says, &quot;What did you act upon from the knowledge that you acquired?&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Don't forget the supplication of Yousuf (Joseph) &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; may  Allaah  exalt  his  mention&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net.qa/ver2/archive/images/icon--2.gif&quot;&gt; (which means): &lt;B&gt;&lt;I&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;COLOR: #0033cc&quot;&gt;&quot;Cause me to die as a Muslim and join me with the righteous.&quot;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/I&gt;&lt;/B&gt; [Quran 12:101]&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;You should aid yourself through fear: living with the fear of eternal abode in the Hell Fire. Don't rest and sit around while the sweetness of Faith is missing or is weakened. How many people set out on journeys for the purpose of treating their illnesses and how many of them spend out of their wealth to treat these illnesses? Do not the souls and the hearts have more priority in being treated, as their matter is one of total eternity? Bring to mind the Hadeeth, &lt;SPAN style=&quot;COLOR: #339933&quot;&gt;&lt;I&gt;&quot;Every slave will be resurrected upon that which he died.&quot;&lt;/I&gt; &lt;/SPAN&gt;[Muslim], then expect death at any moment. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;It is better for you if you were to meet death whilst trying to improve your own condition than to die whilst striving to improve others', being held accountable at the same time for leaving off obligatory actions just like the lantern that burns itself out and gives light to others, as in the Hadeeth: &lt;SPAN style=&quot;COLOR: #339966&quot;&gt;&lt;I&gt;&quot;The example of the scholar who teaches the people good things but forgets himself is that of a lantern, it gives light to the people but burns itself out.&quot;&lt;/I&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;I&gt; &lt;/I&gt;[At-Tabaraani] &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;COLOR: #993366&quot;&gt;&lt;SPAN style=&quot;LINE-HEIGHT: 150%&quot;&gt;By: Sheikh Husayn al-Awaaishah&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/TD&gt;&lt;/TR&gt;&lt;/TBODY&gt;&lt;/TABLE&gt;&lt;/TD&gt;&lt;/TR&gt;&lt;/TBODY&gt;&lt;/TABLE&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

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	<title>Articles :: Stories :: More :: Ingratitude towards parents</title>
	<link>http://www.muftisays.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=21555#21555</link>
	<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 09:24:23 GMT</pubDate>
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&lt;P align=justify&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;&lt;FONT size=3 face=&quot;Times New Roman&quot;&gt;&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;&quot;Say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honour.&quot;&lt;/FONT&gt; [Quran 17:23]&lt;?XML:NAMESPACE PREFIX = O /&gt;&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt; 
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;In Islam, it is obligatory for us to show kindness, respect, and obedience to our parents. The position of parents, and the mutual obligations and responsibilities, have been addressed in Islam in great detail. In fact, kindness and obedience is so strongly emphasized that Allaah has linked showing gratitude to one's parents with showing gratitude to Allaah. In the Noble Quran, Almighty Allaah Says (which means):&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;&quot;And We have enjoined on man (to be good) to his parents: in travail upon travail did his mother bear him, and in years twain was his weaning: (hear the command), &quot;Show gratitude to Me and to your parents: to Me is (your final) return.&quot;&lt;/FONT&gt; [Quran 31:14]&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;Sadly, we are living in a time where children speaking disrespectfully to their parents and about their parents, is the norm rather than the exception. However, Islam places great emphasis on respectful and considerate behaviour to even our enemies, so to not uphold the obligations laid down by Allaah to our parents is actually one of the major sins.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;FONT face=Tahoma&gt;&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;In the Quran&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;Let's see what the Quran says about parents.&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt; &quot;This is the Book; in it is guidance sure, without doubt, to those who fear Allaah.&quot;&lt;/FONT&gt; [Quran 2:02] &lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;&lt;FONT size=+0&gt;Treat parents with honour and speak to them graciously and with humility&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;Allaah Says (which means):&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;&quot;Your Lord hath decreed that you worship none but Him, and that you be kind to parents. Whether one or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honour. And, out of kindness, lower to them the wing of humility, and say: My Lord! Bestow on them Your Mercy even as they cherished me in childhood.&quot;&lt;/FONT&gt; [Quran 17:23]&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;&lt;FONT size=+0&gt;Be grateful to parents but do not obey them if they strive to make you associate anything with Allaah&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;Allaah also Says (which means):&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;&quot;...Be grateful to Me and to both your parents; to Me is the eventual coming. But if they strive to make thee join in worship with Me things of which you have no knowledge, obey them not; yet bear them company in this life with justice (and consideration), and follow the way of those who turn to Me (in love): in the end the return of you all is to Me, then will I inform you of what you did.&quot;&lt;/FONT&gt; [Quran 31:15]&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;These verses make it clear that we must honour our parents, appreciate their sacrifices and efforts for us, and do our best for them. This is required regardless of whether they are Muslims or not.&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;&lt;FONT size=+0&gt;Be good to parents and everyone whom you meet&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;The Quran states (which means):&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;&quot;Worship Allaah, and join not any partners with Him; and do good- to parents, kinsfolk, orphans, those in need, neighbours who are near, neighbours who are strangers, the companion by your side, the wayfarer (ye meet), and what your right hands possess: For Allaah loves not the arrogant, the vainglorious.&quot;&lt;/FONT&gt; [Quran 4:36]&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;If the Quran tells us to be good to a stranger, then how can we even think of disrespecting our parents?&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;Hadeeth&lt;/FONT&gt; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;Let's see what Prophet Muhammad &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; said about parents in the authentic Hadeeth (narrations). Almighty Allaah Says (which means): &lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;&quot;Whatsoever the Prophet gives you, take it and whatsoever he forbids you, refrain from it.&quot;&lt;/FONT&gt; [Quran 59:7]&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;&lt;FONT size=+0&gt;Undutifulness to parents is a major sin&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;Anas &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net/ver2/archive/images/icon--3.gif&quot;&gt; narrated from Prophet Muhammad &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; about the major sins. He (the Prophet) observed: &lt;FONT color=#008000&gt;'Associating anyone (or anything) with Allaah, undutifulness to parents, killing a person and false utterance.'&lt;/FONT&gt; [Muslim]&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;&lt;FONT size=+0&gt;One of the dearest deeds to Allaah is being good and dutiful to parents&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;'Abdullaah Ibn Mas'ood &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net/ver2/archive/images/icon--3.gif&quot;&gt; narrated: I asked the Prophet &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; &lt;FONT color=#008000&gt;&quot;Which deed is the dearest to Allaah?&quot; He replied, &quot;To offer the prayers at their early stated fixed times.&quot; I asked, &quot;What is the next (in goodness)?&quot; He replied, &quot;To be good and dutiful to your parents&quot;&lt;/FONT&gt; [Al-Bukhaari] &lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;&lt;FONT size=+0&gt;Being dutiful to parents is one of the keys to enter Paradise&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;Abu Hurayrah &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net/ver2/archive/images/icon--3.gif&quot;&gt; reported Prophet Muhammad &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; as saying:&lt;FONT color=#008000&gt; Let him be humbled into dust; let him be humbled into dust; let him be humbled into dust. It was said: O Allaah's Messenger, who is he? He said: He who accompanies either of his parents during their old age or one of them, but he does not enter Paradise (by being undutiful to them).&lt;/FONT&gt; [Muslim] &lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;Acts of kindness we can do for our parents after their death&lt;/FONT&gt; &lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;A man of the tribe of Salamah came to Prophet Muhammad &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; and said:&lt;FONT color=#008000&gt; 'O Apostle of Allaah! Is there any kindness left that I can do to my parents after their death?' He replied: 'Yes, you can invoke blessings on them, forgiveness for them, fulfill their promises and pledges (to do righteous deeds), maintain ties with kinfolk for the mere reason of being dutiful to them (i.e. parents), and honour their friends.'&lt;/FONT&gt; [Abu Daawood] &lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;&lt;FONT size=+0&gt;The High Status given to Mothers&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;A man came to the Prophet &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; and asked him for permission to fight Jihaad. The Prophet &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; asked him if he had a mother, and when he replied affirmatively, he &lt;IMG border=0 alt=&quot; sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention )&quot; align=middle src=&quot;http://www.islamweb.net/ver2/archive/images/icon--1.gif&quot;&gt; said,&lt;FONT color=#008000&gt; &quot;Stay with her, for Paradise is at her feet (i.e. she is the way leading to it).&quot;&lt;/FONT&gt; [Ahmad]&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;FONT color=#0000ff&gt;&lt;FONT size=+0&gt;Summary&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;Sometimes we may take our parents for granted and overlook their importance. As Muslims, we should constantly be alert to guard ourselves from sins; however, are we guarding ourselves from one of the biggest major sins? Are we honouring and respecting our parents as per their right? Or are we neglecting one of the dearest deeds to Allaah? &lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;Right now the choice is ours!&lt;O:P&gt;&lt;/O:P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;We ask Allaah the Most High, the All-Powerful, to teach us that which will benefit us, and to benefit us by that which we learn.&lt;/P&gt;
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	<title>Members Research Group :: Barelvi aka sunni</title>
	<link>http://www.muftisays.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=21532#21532</link>
	<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 10:40:39 GMT</pubDate>
	<description>&lt;b&gt;Author:&lt;/b&gt; sister-in-islam&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;P&gt;Salam&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I would like to know regarding Barelive also call themselves sunni and Alh sunnat wal jammat the area i come from,at the moment they all hyped up celebrating the birth of the prophet(saw) which i believe to be BIDA.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;There is very good reason behind my inquiry,i will reveal all in my other posts inshallah.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

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	<title>News Articles :: Maulana Tariq Jamil has a Heart Attack.</title>
	<link>http://www.muftisays.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=21528#21528</link>
	<pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 14:51:01 GMT</pubDate>
	<description>&lt;b&gt;Author:&lt;/b&gt; shining light&lt;br /&gt;
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Maulana Tariq Jamil has had a Heart Attack sometimes this morning.May Allah give him full recovery soon inshallah.&lt;br /&gt;

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	<title>People's Say :: Petitions - real or time waste?</title>
	<link>http://www.muftisays.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=21517#21517</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 21:25:29 GMT</pubDate>
	<description>&lt;b&gt;Author:&lt;/b&gt; Yasin&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Subject::&lt;/b&gt; Subject: Petitions - real or time waste? &lt;br /&gt;
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Assalamu Alaykum,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Does anyone know of any real case that has actually been overturned or changed due to a petition or some radio poll which I am sure is to make money.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I remember once there was a link posted here and it said the government requires 1 million votes. When I clicked the link, there were over 1.2 million but nothing changed.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;So are petition a waste of time or does it actually make a difference?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I would really appreciate if readers could take out 1 minute of their priceless time and gave some feedback. Seriously!&lt;br&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

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	<title>Articles :: Stories :: More :: Respecting our differences</title>
	<link>http://www.muftisays.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=21492#21492</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 11:44:43 GMT</pubDate>
	<description>&lt;b&gt;Author:&lt;/b&gt; sister-in-islam&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;CENTER&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Respecting our differences&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/CENTER&gt;&lt;/B&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;
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&lt;CENTER&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;&quot;Waste no time debating what a good &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Muslim&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Muslim&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; should be. Be one!&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;I&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;by &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Muhammad&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Muhammad&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; Alshareef &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/I&gt;&lt;/CENTER&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Imam &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Malik&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Malik&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; one day entered the &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Masjid&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Masjid&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; after Asr. Towards the front of &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Masjid&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Masjid&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; An-Nabawee he drew closer and sat down. Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; had commanded that anyone who enters the &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Masjid&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Masjid&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; should not sit until he first prays 2 rakas as a salutation of the Masjid. Imam &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Malik&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Malik&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; was of the opinion however that Rasul Allah's forbiddance of praying after &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Asr&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Asr&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; took precedence and so he would teach his students to not pray the tahiyyatul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Masjid&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Masjid&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; if they entered between the &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Asr&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Asr&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; and &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Maghrib&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Maghrib&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; time. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;At that moment that Imam &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Malik&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Malik&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; sat down, a young boy had seen him sit without first praying the 2 raka's of Tahiyyatul Masjid. The young boy scorned him, &quot;Get up and pray 2 rakas!&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Imam &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Malik&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Malik&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; dutifully stood up once again and began praying the 2 rakas. The students sat stunned: What was going on? Had Imam Malik's opinion changed? &lt;/FONT&gt;
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&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;After he had completed the salah, the students swarmed around and questioned his actions. Imam &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Malik&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Malik&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; said, &quot;My opinion has not changed, nor have I gone back on what I taught you earlier. I merely feared that had I not prayed the 2 rakas as the young boy commanded, &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; may include me in the Ayah... &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;And when it is said to them, 'Bow (in prayer)', they do not bow.&quot; - al mursalat 77/48. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Imam Ahmad&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Imam Ahmad&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; held the opinion that eating camel meat nullifies ones Wudhu, an opinion that the majority of scholars differed from. Some students asked him, &quot;If you find an Imam eating camel meat in front of you and - without first making Wudu - then leads the Salah, would you pray behind him?&quot; &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Imam Ahmad&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Imam Ahmad&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; replied, &quot;Do you think I would not pray behind the likes of Imam &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Malik&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Malik&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; and Sa'eed ibn Al-Musayyab?&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; created humans with differences. It is the law of creation. Different tongues, different colors, different cultures...all that on the outside. On the inside, humans were created with many degrees of knowledge, intellect, and comprehension of concepts. This is all a sign of Allah's all encompassing power to do whatever He wills: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;And among His signs is the creation of the heavens and the earth, and the variations in your languages and your colors: verily in that are signs for those who know.&quot; [30:22] &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Humans shall differ, that is not the issue. The issue is: How as a &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Muslim&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Muslim&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; should one confront these differences of opinions and what should be our relationship with someone of a different opinion. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; ta'ala commanded us to call and advise people in this &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Deen&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Deen&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; of Al-Islam. Many &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Muslims&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Muslims&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; set off on this mission blindfolded, not realizing that the map was there in the &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Qur'an&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Qur'an&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; also. In fact, in the very same verse where &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; commanded us to call and advise people in this Deen, &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; taught us how to do it. Read the following verse carefully:&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;Invite (fi'l Amr - &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; is commanding) to the way of your Lord with wisdom and good instruction and argue with them in a way that is best! &quot; - Surah &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=An-Nahl&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;An-Nahl&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; 16/125. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;There is no need to philosophize. No need to talk in the flower gardens. It is right there, plain and simple for anyone who would take heed. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;There in that Ayah are the three ingredients to apply when we disagree with someone. The same &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; that taught us to debate the truth, taught us how to do it: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;1 - With Hikmah (wisdom) &lt;BR&gt;2 - With good instruction, and &lt;BR&gt;3 - To argue in a way that is best. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;What does it mean to have Hikmah when differing with someone? The grandsons of Rasul Allah(saw) once set one of the most beautiful examples of Hikmah in advising others. Al-Hasan and Al-Husayn - in their young age - once saw a senior man performing Wudu incorrectly. Together they arranged a plan to teach the man without insulting him, advising him in a manner befitting of his age. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Together they went to the senior and announced, &quot;My brother and I have differed over who amongst us performs Wudu the best. Would you mind being the judge to determine which one of us indeed performs Wudu more correctly.&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;The man watched intently as the two grandsons of Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; performed Wudu in an explicit manner. After they had completed, he thanked them and said, &quot;By Allah, I did not know how to perform Wudu before this. You have both taught me how to do it correctly.&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;We must understand that there are two dimensions to Hikmah. Firstly, there is the Hikmah of knowledge - Hikmah Ilmiyyah. And secondly, there is the Hikmah of Action - Hikmah Amaliyyah. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Some people may have Hikmah of knowledge. But we see that when they try correcting others, advising them, they lack the Hikmah of Action. This causes many a common folk to reject the Hikmah of knowledge. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;To illustrate this hikmah of knowledge without Hikmah of action, a brother once completed the &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Salah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Salah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; in a local &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Masjid&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Masjid&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; and then proceeded to shake hands with the people on his right and left. The brother to his immediate right slapped his hand and snapped, &quot;That is not part of the Sunnah!&quot; The man replied most correctly, &quot;Oh, is disrespect and insult part of the Sunnah?&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;To show Hikmah when we differ requires the following: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;&lt;B&gt;Sincerity &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/B&gt;One: If we differ, our intentions should be that we are differing in the sincere hope of coming away with the truth. Our intentions should be sincere to Allah. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;We should not differ just to release some hate or envy in our heart. We should not differ to embarrass someone like we may have been embarrassed. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; said, &quot;Whoever learns knowledge - knowledge from that which should be sought for the sake of &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; - only to receive a commodity of the material world, he shall not find the fragrance of &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Jannah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Jannah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; on the day of resurrection.&quot; - An authentic &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Hadith&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Hadith&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; narrated by Abu Dawood in Kitab Al-Ilm. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;&lt;B&gt;Kindness and Gentleness &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/B&gt;Two: To have Hikmah when differing means we should rarely depart from an atmosphere of kindness and gentleness, we should seldom allow ourselves to become angry and raise our voices. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Fir'own (Pharaoh) was one of the evilest people that lived. Musa was one of the noblest. Look at how &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; told Musa to advise Fir'own... &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;Go, both of you, to Fir'own. Indeed, he has transgressed. And speak to him with gentle speech, perhaps he may remember or fear (Allah).&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;A man once entered upon the &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Khalifah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Khalifah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; and chastised him for some policies he had taken. The &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Khalifah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Khalifah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; replied, &quot;By Allah, Fir'own was more eviler than me. And by Allah, Musa was more pious than you. Yet, &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; commanded him...'And speak to him with gentle speech, perhaps he may remember or fear (Allah).'&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;&lt;B&gt;Take Your Time and Clarify &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/B&gt;Three: To have Hikmah when dealing with others is to be patient and clarify things before snapping to conclusions. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Imam Ahmad&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Imam Ahmad&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; narrates with his chain of narrators leading to Ibn Abbas who said, &quot;A man from Bani Saleem passed by a group of the Prophet's companions. (At that time of war) The man said 'as salamu alaykum' to them. The companions concluded that he only said 'as salamu alaykum' to them as a deception to save himself from being caught. They surrounded him and Malham ibn Juthaamah killed him. From that event &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; revealed the verse... &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;O you who have believed, when you go forth (to fight) in the cause of Allah, investigate, and do not say to one who gives you (a greeting of peace), &quot;You are not a believer,&quot; Aspiring for the goods of worldly life; for with &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; are many acquisitions. You (yourselves) were like that before; then &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; conferred His favor (i.e. guidance) upon you, so investigate. Indeed, &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; is ever with what you do, acquainted.&quot; - Surah AnNisa, 4/94. From Tafseer Ibn Katheer. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;&lt;B&gt;Speak Kindly &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/B&gt;Fourthly, never trade in kind words for harshness, especially when dealing with other Muslims. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Look at the power of a sincere and polite word: Mus'ab ibn Umayr was the first of ambassador of Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; in Madinah. Before Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; had arrived in Madinah, Mus'ab taught ahl al-Madinah about &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Islam&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Islam&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; and they began to enter the Deen. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;This enraged Sa'd ibn 'Ubaadah, one of the chieftains of Madinah. He sheathed his sword and set off for the head of Mus'ab ibn 'Umayr. When he confronted Mus'ab he threatened, &quot;Stop this nonsense you speak or you shall find yourself dead!&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Mus'ab replied in the way that should be a lesson for us all. This man before him did not stop at rudeness and ignorance, he wanted to slit his throat. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Mus'ab said, &quot;Shall you not sit and listen for a few moments. If you agree with what I say then take it, and if not, we shall desist from this talk.&quot; Sa'd sat down. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Mus'ab spoke about &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; and His messenger until the face of Sa'd ibn Ubaadah's face shone like a full moon and he said, &quot;What should a person do who wishes to enter into this Deen?&quot; After Mus'ab had told him he said, &quot;There is a man, if he accepts this Deen, there shall be no home in &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Madinah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Madinah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; that will not become Muslim. Sa'd ibn Mu'aadh.&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;When Sa'd ibn Mu'aadh heard what was happening, he was infuriated. He left his home to go and kill this man called Mus'ab ibn Umayr for the dissention he had caused. He entered upon Mus'ab and announced, &quot;You shall desist of this religion you speak of or you shall find yourself dead!&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Mus'ab replied, &quot;Shall you not sit and listen for a few moments. If you agree with what I say then take it, and if not, I shall desist from this talk.&quot; Sa'd sat. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Mus'ab spoke about &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; and His messenger until the face of Sa'd ibn Mu'aadh's face shone like a full moon and he said, &quot;What should a person do who wishes to enter into this Deen?&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Look at what a kind word did. Sa'd ibn Mu'aadh went home to his Madinan tribe that night and announced to them all, &quot;Everything of yours is &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Haram&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Haram&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; upon me until you all enter into Islam.&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;That night, every home in &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Madinah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Madinah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; went to bed with Laa ilaaha illa Allah...all because of a kind word. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;&lt;B&gt;Part II: Who wins? &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/B&gt;Mu'aawiyah ibn al-Hakam al-Salami. When he came to &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Madeenah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Madeenah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; from the desert, he did not know that it was forbidden to speak during the salaah. He relates: &quot;Whilst I was praying behind the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), a man sneezed, so I said 'Yarhamuk Allaah (may Allaah have mercy on you).' The people glared at me, so I said, 'May my mother lose me! What is wrong with you that you are looking at me?' They began to slap their thighs with their hands, and when I saw that they were indicating that I should be quiet, I stopped talking (i.e., I nearly wanted to answer them back, but I controlled myself and kept quiet). &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;When the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) had finished praying - may my father and mother be sacrificed for him, I have never seen a better teacher than him before or since - he did not scold me or hit me or put me to shame. He just said, 'This prayer should contain nothing of the speech of men; it is only tasbeeh and takbeer and recitation of the Qur'aan.'&quot; (Saheeh Muslim, 'Abd al-Baaqi edn., no. 537). &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Islam&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Islam&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; showed us how to differ with one another. Some people think that we should never differ at all and all disagreements should be avoided. Nay, this is an incorrect assumption, for the &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Qur'an&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Qur'an&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; and &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Sunnah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Sunnah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; show clearly that when a mistake is made it should be corrected. Indeed helping others do what is right is a requirement of the Deen, sincere Naseeha. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;We see when Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; turned away from AbdAllah ibn Umm Maktoom, the blind man, &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; corrected him in the Qur'an... &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;(The Prophet) frowned and turned away, Because there came to him the blind man But what could tell you that perchance he might become pure (from sins)? Or that he might receive admonition, and that the admonition might profit him?&quot; - surah Abasa, 1-4 &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;When Haatib ibn Abi Balta'ah (may Allaah be pleased with him) made the mistake of writing to the kuffaar of Quraysh and informing them of the direction in which the &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Prophet&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Prophet&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was headed on a military campaign against them, Allaah revealed the words: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;O you who believe! Take not My enemies and your enemies as friends...&quot; - Surah Mumtahinah/1 &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;And so on. Thus we learn that when a mistake happens it should be corrected. However, the method of correction is what needs our attention. Whenever &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Muslims&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Muslims&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; argue, it is as if each party carries a banner of: 'I must win and you must lose!' Careful study of the &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Sunnah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Sunnah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; however shows us that this is not always the case with the way Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; acted. Consider the following examples: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;I lose and you win!&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;A Bedouin came to Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; and told him, &quot;Give me from what &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; gave you, not from the wealth of your mother nor from the wealth of your father.&quot; The Sahaabah were furious at the man and step forward to discipline him for what he said. Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; commanded everyone to leave him. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Then by the hand, Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; took him home, opened his door and said, &quot;Take what you wish and leave what you wish.&quot; The man did so and after he completed, Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; asked him, &quot;Have I honored you?&quot; &quot;Yes, by Allah,&quot; said the Bedouin. &quot;Ash hadu an laa ilaaha illa Allah, wa ashhadu anna Muhammadar Rasul Allah.&quot; (Meaning he embraced Islam) &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;When the &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Sahabah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Sahabah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; heard of how the man changed, Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; taught them. &quot;Verily the example of myself, you and this Bedouin is that of a man who had his camel run away. The townspeople tried capturing the camel for him by running and shouting after the camel, only driving it further away. The man would shout, 'Leave me and my camel, I know my camel better.' Then he took some grass in his hand, ruffled it in front of the camel, until it came willingly. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;'By Allah, had I left you to this Bedouin, you would have hit him, hurt him, he would have left without &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Islam&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Islam&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; and eventually have entered hellfire.&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;I win and you lose!&quot;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;A &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Muslim&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Muslim&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; should not have an apologetic stance to everything he is confronted with. There are times when the truth must be said, when there is no room for flattery. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;When the Makhzoomi women - a women from an affluent family - stole, people approached Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; to have her punishment canceled. Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; became very angry and stood on the pulpit and announced, &quot;By Allah, had Fatima the daughter of &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Muhammad&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Muhammad&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; stole I would have cut her hand off.&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;No room for flattery, the truth must be stood up for. It is here that the etiquette of disagreement that we talked earlier about should shine. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&quot;I win and you win!&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;There doesn't always have to be a loser. We see in many cases that Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; gave a way out for the people he differed with. When he sent the letter to Caesar, he said in it, &quot;Become &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Muslim&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Muslim&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; and you shall be safe, &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; shall give you your reward double!&quot; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;He did not say surrender or die! Nothing of the sort. Become &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Muslim&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Muslim&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; and you shall win, rather your victory shall be double. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I shall end with this shining example of how to act with other &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Muslims&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Muslims&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; from our role model, Abu Bakr: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Abu Bakr&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Abu Bakr&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; once disputed with another companion about a tree. During the dispute &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Abu Bakr&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Abu Bakr&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; said something that he rather would not have said. He did not curse, he did not attack someone's honor, he did not poke a fault in anyone, all he said was something that may have hurt the other companion's feelings. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Immediately, &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Abu Bakr&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Abu Bakr&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; - understanding the mistake - ordered him, &quot;Say it back to me!&quot; The companion said, &quot;I shall not say it back.&quot; &quot;Say it back to me,&quot; said Abu Bakr, &quot;Or I shall complain to the Messenger of Allah.&quot; The companion refused to say it back and went on his way.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Abu Bakr&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Abu Bakr&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; went to Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; and related what had happened and what he said. Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; called that companion and asked him, &quot;Did &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Abu Bakr&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Abu Bakr&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; say so and so to you?&quot; He said, &quot;Yes.&quot; He said, &quot;What did you reply.&quot; He said, &quot;I did not reply it back to him.&quot; Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; said, &quot;Good, do not reply it back to him (do not hurt Abu Bakr). Rather say, 'May &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; forgive you O Abu Bakr!'&quot; The Companion turned to &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Abu Bakr&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Abu Bakr&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; and said, &quot;May &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; forgive you O Abu Bakr! May &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; forgive you O Abu Bakr!&quot; &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Abu Bakr&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Abu Bakr&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; turned and cried as he walked away. Let us leave today with a resolve to revive this air Rasul &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A style=&quot;PADDING-RIGHT: 13px; BACKGROUND: url(../wiki/skins/monobook/external.png) no-repeat right center; COLOR: darkgreen&quot; title=&quot;view word on Muftipedia.&quot; href=&quot;http://pedia.muftisays.com/index.php?title=Allah&quot; target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt;Allah&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT color=#000000&gt; and his companions breathed, an air of mercy and love and brotherhood. &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/TD&gt;&lt;/TR&gt;&lt;/TBODY&gt;&lt;/TABLE&gt;&lt;/TD&gt;
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