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Divorce statements and metaphors

Thu, 17 May 2012 18:13:08 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 02
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Assalaamu Alaykum Question regarding actual divorce statement and metaphors: 1) I would like to know, if a person WRITES e-mail to find out the ruling and on the e-mail its written that they said or wrote a metaphor with intention, but in reality they didn't say it or write it with intention or the metaphor was never spoken, would that count just because they wrote in the email that they said it or wrote it with intention, when really there was no intention at the time of saying or writing or it was not spoken ? 2) If someone is in doubt and confused about saying a statment or a metaphor to his wife and says 'I said the statement.....etc' and then after some thinking he says I didn't say it and it was all doubt and confusion, would that count just because he said that he said it? 3) If someone says Withdraw/s or return or returned, or (Turja'oon which means returned, would that count? Nothing else is uttered. 4) If someone says Waladaaleen in Surah Fatiha and the intention is on the 'went' word (those who went astray ), would that count? Nothing else is uttered. 5) If someone says location or a name of a place, would that count? Nothing else is uttered.

Answered: Thu, 17 May 2012 18:13:08 GMT

Benefits, Tax Credits and Related

Thu, 17 May 2012 18:05:36 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 02
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Assalamu aww, I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for your efforts and service to the community, may Allah accept it and reward you immensely, As I'm planing to become an Agent for HMRC (as a Tax Consultant) basically to do Self Assessment on behalf of my clients (mostly Mini-Cab Drivers) and also I will be dealing with Tax Credits and all sort of Benefits, if I don't involve in any kind of interest calculation, is this kind of job allowed or not? (should I also have to consider the Mini-Cab driving and their earnings is allowed or not?) and is it permissible to receive benefits and tax credits in this country?, please be kind enough to advice me as soon as possible. And if possible, is it permissible to take decision or choose something by tossing/lot (method of deciding through picking out chits)? If possible please send you advice to my email address as well please. Jazakkallahu-khairan. Bro.Azmath.

Answered: Thu, 17 May 2012 18:05:36 GMT

Shariah Will - Estates

Thu, 17 May 2012 17:59:02 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 02
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AssalamuAlaikum w.w. I am in the process of making a Shariah Will. I would like to clarify some matters before finalising the will. I live in the United Kingdom. My situation is: I am married with 4 children, Alhamdulillah. My first child is from another marriage. I bought my property solely from my work wages, my first child's maintenance monies and all of my mine and my children's government benefit monies (child benefit, child tax credit and working tax credit). My husband did not contribute at all whilst purchasing the house, neither did he contribute towards the renovation, loft conversion, buying furniture and appliances. This house was bought mortgage free (the current value is approximately �325,000). The car we own is in my name and it was bought from my wages and my father contributed towards it. I also have a substantial amount of money in my bank account made from my work wages and the children government benefits as stated above. When I bought my property, the solicitor was my husband's friend, and my husband included his name in the title deed without my consent, I did not say anything as I did not want to hurt his feelings. My husband's argument is that he was looking after the 2 children for 3.5 yrs when I went to work. I am currently on career break for my fourth child and has always worked part-time (school hours only) so I can be at home when my children returns home from school. My husband did not have a job then as he is from abroad and was unable to find a job whereas I was already in a well paid job when married to him. He says that he should receive all of the children's government benefits and my first child's maintenance monies. My questions are: 1) According to Shariah, does my husband have a share in the property? 2) Was my husband correct in including his name in the property? 3) Am I allowed to keep and use my children's benefit monies on them/us (i.e., taking them on holiday etc) or do I need to give them to my husband? 4) Do I need to give my first child's maintenance monies to my husband? 5) (a) After my deceased, according to shariah, would my husband be entitled to a share in the property which was brought from my work wages and from my children's benefit money and child maintenance money? (b) If yes, would it be one quarter share of the full value of the property or will he have a share in more than half of the property (three quarter) as his name is on the title deed? 6) Will he have a quarter share from my bank savings made from my work wages and my children's monies, bearing in mind that he has not contributed anything? 7) If he is entitled to a share, then how to distribute it as the childrens government monies is also in the property and in my bank account? 8) My concern is that, after my deceased, if my husband gets re-married, I do not want his wife or the children he has had from that marriage to have any share in the property that was purchased from my wages and my children's monies as he did not contribute a penny. I also heard that his parents would have a share in his estate too (if alive). I worked very hard to accumulate all of the above for my children and did not spend much on myself. I want my children to inherit all the above (apart from bequest to muslim charities) as there was no contribution from my husband. Is this permissible in Shariah? 9) The other concern is that I do not want my husband to have to leave the property either until he is deceased. I would like for him to be able to live in the property, should he wish to do so, until he is deceased then for my children only to inherit the property. Is this allowed in Shariah? My husband has a substantial amount of savings which he has invested abroad and is under his brothers name. Please inform me whether the above mentioned is permissible in Shariah. If not, how can I make the will according to Shariah bearing my children full interest in mind. I am so confused. JazakAllah khair. May Allah SWT reward you abundantly.

Answered: Thu, 17 May 2012 17:59:02 GMT

premature ejaculation

Thu, 17 May 2012 17:58:31 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 02
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I suffer from premature ejaculation. Me and my wife have found that if she masterbates me from time to time, then that helps when we have sexual intercoarse. Since I can't masterbate my self, my wife would like to know that is it permissible for her to use a male masturbator (sex toy) on me. She prefers to use a male masturbator (sex toy) than her hand.

Answered: Thu, 17 May 2012 17:58:31 GMT

Madhab of Isa alayhisaalam and Imam Mahdi

Tue, 15 May 2012 23:42:25 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 09
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Assalamualiakum warahmatulla, Dear respected Ulamaa.

I have heard many different views regarding the madhab of Imam Mahdi and Isa alayhissalam when they come in the future; many people claim that they will have their own madhabs. Is this true? Could you please give me the correct opinion regarding this matter?

JazakaAllah.
Wassalam

Answered: Tue, 15 May 2012 23:42:25 GMT

Changing from Hanaafi to Shaafi?

Tue, 15 May 2012 23:41:42 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 04
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Assalamulaykum. I am currently following the Shaafi madhab. I am going to be married soon- Inshaalah, my future husband is Hanaafi.

Is it possible to become a Hanaafi?

Answered: Tue, 15 May 2012 23:41:42 GMT

Performing Salaah in Jamaat

Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:41 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 04
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It is neccessary for shoulders to be touching in Salaah, when praying in Jamaat?
What if there is a small gap (around 3-4 fingers) between 2 muqtadis' shoulders, would it be neccessary to fill it in?
If yes, can one move in their salaah in order to fill in such a gap?

Answered: Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:41 GMT

Tableegh Jammat Teaching is Wrong

Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:21 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 11
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Asslam aliakum

I am strictly following on Hanifi Mahabas, and proud to be a Hanifi and father, forefather belongs to same, but I have read in Qur'an Allah say:

"And Allah has beautiful Names, so cal upon him by them, and leave the company of those who deviate concerning his names. They will be recompensed for what they used to do (sooratul-Araaf 7:180)

And our great imam Abu Haneefah said, 'it is detested for the supplicate too say, 'I ask You by the right of so and so,' or, 'By the right of your prophets and Messengers, and by the right of the Sacred House and the Scared Sanctuary.' (sharhul-Aqeedatut-Tahaawiyyah (p.234) and ithaafus-Saadaatul-Mustaqeem (2/285) and sharhul-Fiqhil-Akbar (p.198) of al-Qaaree)

And Abu Haneefah said, 'it is not befitting for anyone to call upon Allah, except by him, and it is even more detestable for him to say: By the junctures of Hon our from your throne, or 'By the Right of Your Creation' Al-fiqhul-Absat (p.56). this is what we know worshipping or supplicating from Quran and Imam Abu hanifa Rah..

What is the teaching of Tableegh Jammat in Fadhail Amaal chapter Fadhail Durood, p.97 incident no (hikayat) 35: the Messenger of Allah (allegedly) said: "Whoever wants something from anyone should go to grave and supplicate to Allah for it.

Again on p.109, incident # (Hikayat) -48, Fadhail Durood (last chapter Fadhail Amaal, Vol I) sh. Abu Khair Qattah said that: I went to Madinah and stayed there for five days but did not achieve the pleasure and satisfaction. I went to the graves of the Prophet, Hadhrat Abu Bakr and Hadhrat Umar and said "O Messenger of Allah I am your guest tonight.' then I left the place and slept behind the minbar. I saw in my dream that the prophet of Allah with Abu Bakr on his right, Umar on his left and Ali was in front of them all. Hadrat Ali then shook me and said that the messenger of Allah has come to visit me I got up and kissed the prophet between his eyes. The Messenger of Allah then gave me a piece of bread which I ate half and when I woke up the other half was in my hand.

When our Qur'an and Imam Abu Hanifa rah is saying something, but this Tableegh Jammat teaching against our Qur'an and Imam Abu Hanifa, which is right? Give me Clear Answer to this Question?

Answered: Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:21 GMT

discharge

Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:21 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 09
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salams

women normally get a yellowy discharge throughout the month.is wudhu broken whenever she gets it?

jazakallah

wassalam

Answered: Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:21 GMT

Istikharah Signs

Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:21 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 09
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Assalamualaykum,

What are the good signs that you see after doing istikhaara and what are the bad?

Answered: Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:21 GMT

urgent please-hajj

Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:21 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 04
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Assalamu Alaykum,

I am a woman who has been separated from my husband over 9 months now, still does not give my divorce. I will to go to hajj this coming December but I am wondering if it is permissible for me to go with my brother without needing my husband permission as I have no contract with him.
Some say my hajj won't be accepted without asking him, others say I need to be divorce then go. But I really will like to know your opinion!! This Is very Urgent As I am Going To Book My Ticket SOON

JazakAllahu khairan

Answered: Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:21 GMT

tired

Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:21 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 11
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assalamu alaykum.
i am convert to islam and i married. my husband lives not in U.k coz he got refusal to enter U.K but from the first time we met i been going to see my husband 2 times a year insha Allah.
as you can imaging this seperation is hurting us very much and i have spend no end of money on documents for the marriage plus the embassy plus my travel to my husband.my husband has no job so all comes from me.
i am a nature loving person and like to be in nature and through nature Allah called me to Islam this call has come before i even known my husband ..alhamdulillah
over 2 years i know my husband now and through this difficult time and my husband has no incombe i worked many many hours i had to sell my car too.
Finally i had a Window and i was able to get a car again to drive to nature and sit on top of a lonely mountain there i feel Allah so close to me and it is a wonderful feeling enable to feel this again and to thank Allah for giving me this felling.
But my husband has other ideas he things i dont need a car and it was wrong from to by a car. i have told him tonite that i like to be close to nature again and that i miss this in my life .
in this 2 years i known my husband i have grown older by 20 years not 2 years coz all i do is work work work.....
is my husband right with saying to me that i dont need a car ?

Answered: Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:21 GMT

intermingling/desegregation

Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:02 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 09
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Assalamualaykum Im new to this site, and im not too sure how to use it well so please forgive me if i make any mistakes. I have recently started to become more practising in my deen and unfortunately my parents have not understood my change, i come from a family of very western thinkers and they do not why i have to cover. I have tried to explain to them with patience that as a muslim women i should be covering and i have even tried to explain that this is what Allah commands us to do in the quraan in several places, however they have recently also tried to make out that intermingling and talking to men is acceptable and there is nothing wrong with it. I have tried very hard to explain that we as muslims should abide by the laws of segregation, but i have had some difficulty..i was just wondering if you could help me explain to them or if you could give me any hadith or quraanic quotes that can back my arguement up..i would really appreciate it and inshAllah maybe they can understand where im coming from..or more importantly what Allah has commanded us to do. JazakAllah khair for any replies. Fi amanillah Your sister in Islam

Answered: Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:02 GMT

advise

Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:02 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 09
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Salaam, I have a question, I gave a freind some advice which was very bais, Will I get sin for that, although I made it very clear that it was just my advice. I was very young wen I gave this advice (only 18), I told some one they should get a divorce, I had my reasons to give this advice. But I was scared wen I found out that divorce is one of the most disliked of halal things in ALLAH's creation. The couple didnt get a divorce, so that proves they didnt take my advice. But the fact remains that I still gave some1 that advice. W/Salaam

Answered: Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:02 GMT

bayat

Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:02 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 09
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i want to know about hazrat hakeem akhter sahib.and if it is ok to take bayat from him ...secondly what about al huda trust , is it ok to attend lectures of dr.farhat hashmi ?

Answered: Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:02 GMT

funeral prayer

Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:02 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 04
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if a person dies just before noon on friday; is it better to bury
him/her before friday prayers when many people can join or hurry in burying the dead;- even if there is short tome to friday prayers?

Answered: Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:02 GMT

Marriage Duas

Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:02 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 10
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Assalamualikum wrwb, what it is is that there is a guy that i wish to marry my family is aware of this but they refuse to accept it because it is simply a guy that i wish to marry my brothers are being really stubborn about it and are also very violent. I do have full faith and imaan in Allah SWT that insha'Allah one day soon it will work out with evryone's happiness but i was just wanted to know is there anything that i can read any dua's or anything to help me persuade my family in accepting this proposal because i wish to get married with this guy with evryones happiness. Jazarkallah Khair May Allah reward you for all you help & please remember me in your dua's

Answered: Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:02 GMT

Name of my daughter

Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:02 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 04
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Dear Mufti Saheb, Assalamu Alaikum.

I have a problem with my daughter's name. Since I liked the name and it sounded unique, I had selected this name. Now my daughter is grown up. But she has problems of personality and marriage. Every time a proposal comes, there is some hindrance in it. Given below are the names of my daughter, her mother & my name:

Daughter name: FAREESA HASSAN
Her mother's name: RUBINA HASSAN
Her father's name: MAHMOOD HASSAN

I want to find out:

1. What is the meaning of my daughter's name FAREESA?
2. Is this name suitable or not suitable?
3. Should I change her name?

Please reply to my above questions.
Thanks & regards
Mahmood Hassan

Answered: Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:02 GMT

Saving Certificate

Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:02 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 04
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I have started purchasing defence & saving certificates since 1998 in order of my office to get tax benifit.
Is my purchasing defence & savings certificates haram ?

Answered: Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:02 GMT

duah

Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:02 GMT

Answered by: Ulamaa ID 10
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is there's any restrictions for a mulim girl to take full hijab including the covering of face?

Answered: Tue, 15 May 2012 23:23:02 GMT